Husband and Wife in Hebrew include the word fire in each plus an extra letter. In Husband that extra letter is yud (the arm, hand, work) and for Wife it is hey (window, behold!, ‘what comes/results from’). Yud Hey spells the short form of the name of God ‘YHWH’. So without YAH in their marriage you have ‘fire of fires’!!! Instead of the refining fire where the husband (bridegroom) reaches his yud (hand) into the fire for the wife who comes out as silver or gold which comes about from their unity of purpose…rather you will have an unquenchable destroying fire brought about by their divisive attitudes.